Just got heartbreaking news. Herpes

Yesterday I found out my husband unknowingly has given me herpes. He’s one of few that don’t present symptoms. I’m devastated. I have two young children and I’m currently pregnant.

I feel like I’ve failed them.

Although I’ve been a faithful good wife, I feel like a dirty slut or something!!

Not to mention that I’m in so much pain. I can’t urinate because it burns so bad, and I can barely function. I have to crawl out of bed to get my children to daycare.

Please if you have experience with this could you give me some positive words and advice? I need it so bad right now