Anytime my BF tells me to do something (he’s trying to help) he comes off really naggy and like he’s lecturing me and I HATE IT. It aggravates me and I really try to hold it in. Like I get it, I’m lazy and forget to pick things up from time to time but I’m not super messy. He makes me feel like I am if I leave 1 PAIR OF PANTS ON THE FLOOR. Or if I leave my shoes on the side of the bed.

Like I said it’s never anything extreme that I do but he makes me feel that way. Is it just my anxiety? Or does he need to tone it down and stop lecturing me like a child.