How do you know when you’re ready for baby2?

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Little one is coming 14 months now. She seems to be growing up so quickly, just gained 4 teeth in the last month and is pretty much walking and never stops talking... I’m feeling broody. I’m also feeling like I’ve lost my baby. I’ve also been struggling with depression and anxiety as finding working tough again. Part of me feels I’d be happier if I tried for baby 2 but then I don’t know if I’m really ready? How did you all know?

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My husband & I decided to try. Our deciding factors are: our age, the age gap we find ideal for kids, & if we feel comfortable having 2. I then consulted my midwife for her input on the matter. 
If you’re struggling with anxiety & depression - make sure to take care of yourself first. You are important & your babies will need you to be the best mom you can be.

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-when I wake up in the morning and my skeleton doesn’t hurt anymore 
-when I can hug my husband without my toddler losing it in a jealous fit

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I’m done...but our age gaps are about 3 years between kids.
Our first was a HARD baby/young toddler.  We were in a fog until 18 months.  Once we caught up on sleep, I was like it’s go time.  I actually went to sleep one night perfectly content with life as it is and woke up the next morning wishing I was 6 months pregnant...so weird....and not everyone feels so strongly about it.
I have said it before, but the second is the hardest.  You don’t have the blissful ignorance you had with your first and it is hard to imagine taking care of two kids.  It all works out, but a lot of moms worry like crazy about life with two during their second pregnancy.

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Our daughter is 14 months old and I am currently 10w4d pregnant! However we had two back to back miscarriages prior to our daughter so we didn’t want to wait to too long to start trying again.

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For us my daughter is 16 months old and my son is 3 months old. We did plan to have our second child but didn’t except to get pregnant that quickly. We knew we were ready because we were in a good place and wanted our children to be close together. It all depends on what your life is like and the mutual decision if it’s best to have another child and if you’re in a good place for it.

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We have always said we wanted our kids 2-3 years apart. With a then 14 month old, we got rid of birth control last month and decided to let it happen when it would. It took us 7 months with our first so we figured this gave us plenty of time to get a 2nd before he turned 3. Just found out Friday I'm 4 weeks pregnant on the first month trying. They will be 23 months apart so we missed our 2-3 year gap by a month... funny how life works 🤷‍♀️🤣  We are so excited though. I would say if you're getting "the itch" for another, talk to your partner and make the decision together. I had been talking to my husband about wanting another for a few months before he decided he was ready to give it a go. Just make sure you're on the same page.

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We have our 14 month old, and I'm 9 weeks pregnant with number 2. I'm no spring chicken and we want 3 before 35 so that contributed to our decision. 
I'm not a dr, but if you are suffering from anxiety and depression, I don't think having another baby is the answer. Same as couples that have a baby to try and save their marriage, its not a good idea. Babies should be welcomed because its the right time, to a healthy mom and dad.
Having a baby is like running a marathon. You have to be physically and mentally up to it. Its ok to admit you need time for yourself.
Its a personal call, but the fact you are uncertain and looking for answers here is perhaps the best answer of all.

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My son is  14 months old and I am 6 weeks pregnant now. We also have a 4 year old. Everybody has a different journey. Wish you the best for your family.

How do you know when you’re ready for baby2?

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