It was so nice with our miscarriage to have family and friends know so we had a support system when we miscarried. But we told everyone right away and still get comments sometimes from random people about "hows the baby" if they were just acquaintances and didnt end up hearing that we miscarried.

So far I've only told my work, my sister, my dad, my grandparents, my husbands granparents, and our 4 closest friends. I have some people that have gone through high risk pregnancies like mine that I feel I could talk to but I keep holding back, unsure if I really want to share the news.

Does anyone else feel this way?

I feel stuck between wanting it to be secret and wanting everyone to know to celebrate it and share my struggles