So I’ve been with my partner for 2.5 years. We bought a house together 10 months ago. He works away a fair amount.

He suffers from depression, although it has got better more recently. When it was at it’s worse (suicidal ideation) his sex drive wasn’t affected! However, now we have hit a wall, despite his mood not being that bad anymore.

We barely have sex.

I have also lost the urge for it.

We both talk openly about how we barely do it anymore.

But I’ve just lost all motivation to try and get it back.

I’ve completely lost my sex drive. I feel like the least sexy woman alive. I have lost all feminine feelings.

I feel like loss of sex drive is contagious! 🤣 and I’ve caught it off him.

How to we break this cycle??

I’m expecting people to say ‘buy sexy undies and do something naughty’. But honestly, that side to me has just shrivelled up and died 😱

Do you think that when you get out of the rhythm of having regular sex, you fancy it less? And by forcing myself to do the deed regularly will make me/us fancy it again?