Feeling emotional need to vent

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My LO is 23 pounds & today when we went for a check up, the RN who come in and take a look at my son and asks if he’s rolling over & I said no not yet she said it can be due from him being FAT 🥴😩 my face kinda went like 🤨 to like this 😡 cause this isn’t really the first time she made said stuff like this before. She started picking at my five month old and my face went from 😡 to 🥺 only because she kind made me feel like I over feed him or if it’s wrong that my son is a diff kind of healthy. He’s a big baby a good eater & most of all healthy!!! When the actual doctor came in I told him about it & told me don’t worry he will talk to her. After the appointment I kinda thought to myself what am I doing wrong, is my baby not rolling over cause he’s over weight , is it my fault but snapped out heard my son laugh and talking & as long as he’s happy I’m happy! My older son was on the “ too skinny” side as the doctor said. I know both of the doctors or even my family members saying ur child is to big or to small are u over feeding or are u even feeding him. No matter what u do people will talk. I am changing doctors ASAP. Only because this isn’t the first time this happen. Sorry if I’m all over the place. Thank you if u made it this far. Thank u for reading this!!! Much needed vent!