Can someone please tell me if it’s normal to have a hard time adjusting to the married life? My husband and I have only been married a few months and have been together for 4 years and since we’ve been married I’m starting to notice we fight more and although I know we will always be okay and be together I feel like it’s not normal. There are a lot of factors that come to play the biggest thing is our work schedules are completely different and we don’t see very much of each other (that’s changing soon) I just hear how everyone talks about the honeymoon stage and that was over the second we got back into our daily lives and I feel like I’m failing as a wife. It’s hard to communicate when we are never face to face and I really do hope and think that’s most of the issue and if so when his schedule changes it will be a lot better. He is such a hard worker and are lives are very busy and I just feel like a failure when we have a fight or argument. Someone either tell me what I’m doing wrong or if anyone else struggled right after marriage. I feel like we put a lot of pressure on ourselves and each other because we are husband and wife now and we shouldn’t be arguing so much.