No longer feel close to my partner

Ellen

Good morning, I’m looking for some advice regarding my relationship. I am currently 12+3 weeks pregnant, me and my partner have been together 2 years and I also have a 4 year old daughter from a previous relationship.

Since getting together 2 years ago me and my boyfriend have been amazing, he’s like my best friend, we couldn’t have been any closer.

There’s been a few issues along the way, which have knocked us down, but we’ve always recovered. We decided to try for a baby at the end of March, and luckily it happened within a few weeks. But since being pregnant we’ve drifted so far apart it’s unreal, I’ve been suffering with HG from about 6 weeks so I’ve been constantly ill for a while now. It seems like he doesn’t want to cuddle me, or have sex, he’d rather watch porn when he’s in his own. My sex drive isn’t the best currently due to me being so ill, so I’m struggling to connect with him that way. We just don’t speak about the pregnancy, it’s like it’s not hit home with him! He works 12 hours a day 5 days a week, but we have the weekend to ourselves, but that’s when arguments seem to occur!

Any help would be massively appreciated, because the relationship it at breaking point

Thank you x