I have been with my parter for 9 years.

I have put some weight back on recently and I have started noticing that I am loosing interest in things - even sex!

My partner is worried that I don’t find him attractive (my god I do!) or than I’m cheating (I’m not and never would)

We hardly get any time together due to having to look after our child and help family members out from day to day.

I really don’t want him worrying and don’t know what to do about it all.

Whenever I try and show him I want him he just says “you don’t have to do anything, I know you not in the mood” (when I am)

What can I do? :(