what should i do?

Question

i always try to be sexy for my boyfriend and turn him on, but nothing seems to work. when we do have sex it seems like he’s not into it at all. it makes me a bit insecure because it feels as though he doesn’t find me attractive, and every time i bring it up to him it starts an argument and nothing gets solved. what should i do? 😕

Answer

I dated someone like that once. He didnt fully understand how much him acting like that would plummet my self esteem. His and my approach to sex was just very different. A good healthy sex life is so important with a SO. Try talking to him again, or just try something over the top lingerie wise and see if he naturally falls into a more comfortable zone. I think my ex was just too much in his own head, and a bit self conscious to realize or care what I personally needed from him.

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