so after multiple attempts my boyfriend finally bought lube and we had sex for the first time (or so we think) it hurt in the beginning but once he was in and began stroking i felt literally nothing . He would go all sorts of speeds , fast slow , and i felt no pleasure what’s so ever , not only that but i did not bleed ? is this normal ??? i thought it would feel just as good as when he fingers me but I didn’t even feel that ,

any tips or reasoning behind not bleeding and or feeling anything in general ?

We’ve been together for 2 years and 6 months