I love my mom to death but it’s getting really old listening to her tell me about how my pregnancy should be. She tells me I should keep my weight down because I don’t want to gain too much (cause you know with me she only gained 20 lbs). That I should have a baby between 5lb-7lbs because anything bigger will tip me apart and because big babies are ugly (I was a premature baby by 11 ish weeks, personally I think because she smoked her entire pregnancy!)

And now she’s on to names telling me names and how they should be spelled. I’ve flat out said to her, you don’t control how much your baby weighs.. second of all -you’ve named your kids... this kid is ours (mine and my hubbys!) The choices of names she has are not my kinda choices. Joss (for a boy) now I’m not against that name but she knows that it’s not for me.

It’s driving me mental. Please tell me I’m not alone