So my husband is the breadwinner and I’m a stay at home mom. He recently told a friend that he could borrow $20. I just find it annoying because the friend moved out of state years ago and didn’t bother to say one word to my husband but the night he moved back he messaged asking to borrow money and my husband let him borrow it knowing he doesn’t even have a job so he probably won’t pay it back. I really just feel like his “friends” take advantage of him since he’s nice. He has another friend that doesn’t call him unless he needs money. My husband actually used to pay that friends rent because he’s too lazy to work (that was before we met)