My brother has two daughters . They are 2 and 14 months . Him and his wife never do their hair or dress them in dresses or anything girly like at all. Which is totally ok .. they aren’t my kids and I wouldn’t comment on how someone raises their kids cause I’m a young mama trying to figure this shit out myself still lol. So anyways . My brother originally lives in NC, and traveled to our parents house in TX. I live with my parents as I’m still trying to get on my feet .. as I do this by myself. So my brother is here left his two kids and wife for like a whole Month already... he doesn’t work and just goes out ALL NIGHT comes home drunk. Also I must add he’s almost 30! He says he’s going back but never says when . Anyways , it started today when I put my daughter in an outfit cause it’s hot here and I was going to take her to a playground . She’s 16 months but he was saying her skirt was TOO short and that I shouldn’t raise her like that. I’m like.. what’s wrong with it it’s hot? He said he would never let his daughters dress in that . I said ok, “good thing she isn’t your kid then” . Also I must add he dressed them in boy clothes on purpose , and gets made if anyone does their hair!!! Like it’s insane . Then the conversation dropped and he brought it up later after I said her dad wanted to take her to get her a pedicure one day . He goes “ why would you do that to a little girl”? I was like it’s good for him to want to do that for his daughter like at least he wants to spend fucking time with her? My brother also decided to say “ I’d rather my kids be smart than cute cause I wouldn’t want to raise a hoe” . Like dude cause she would get a pedicure? So now it’s almost 1 am and I dropped the conversation and he texted me to wake him up In the morning since he knows he won’t be home early and will probably be drunk in the morning .

And I would love y’all s opinion. I asked my sister if I should say something because at this point it’s annoying as fuck and I dropped it and even changed her after he kept making comments but to say “ he needs her to be classy” she’s only fucking 1 , and you don’t even take care of your kids . I seriously could say so much. What would you do?

Also my child is wearing the skirt in the pic