So as the title states, we are struggling.

We had a missed miscarriage in June 2018 at 11 weeks + 4 days.

I finished miscarrying in September and didn’t want to start trying again straight away because I was still grieving.

Well it’s now a year on and I feel ready again. We’ve been having sex without protection the whole time, but we’ve not been ‘trying’.

Well I started a new job in March and my partner started a new job just over a month ago. I don’t get maternity pay from my job until I have been there for 2 years which will be in 2021.

But I can’t help but want to start trying again. We conceived in the first month last year but I have a feeling it won’t happen like that this time.

We celebrated our due date by lighting candles and only using candle light that night. It was so relaxing and made us feel at peace.

I just want to know how long it took other couples to conceive. And if you waited before trying again, are you happy you waited??

Baby dust to all, I wish you all a happy, healthy pregnancy whenever it may happen 💕