In-laws spoiling my kids
I have the best in-laws ever so helpful with everything concerning my twin boys. Keeps them all the time and never complains. My only issue is that we have a difference of opinion on spoiling them. I give my children lots love and affection I just want then to be able to sit down on their own and fall asleep on their own in their own bed. I still have stuff to take care of and can't coddle them 24/7. My in-laws however do just that hold them for everything, doesn't like to put them down or let them sleep alone. The twins are 16 months old and they still hold them while they're sleeping. I just don't do that and it's becoming a headache because now the twins won't sleep in their crib anymore. They will scream until I put them in bed with me. My oldest twin sleeps like a maniac so I have to keep my hands on him to keep him from falling, making my night difficult. I don't want to come off as being ungrateful or even trying to tell them how to love the twins but with a new baby on the way. I need their help more than anything. I know the babies need love and they get it but being able to entertain themselves with toys and sleeping in their own bed shouldn't be this much of a hassle.
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