Our daughter woke up from her sleep and I spent 2 and a half hours trying to put her back down after many, many attempts. Mind you, I have to work early tomorrow, but have to wake up extra early to drop her off at my mom's even though my s/o works in the evening and could be the one to drop her off (he said it'd be easier for me to do it even though our second car is fully capable of having a carseat installed inside). Anyway I was really frustrated because she wanted to stay up and I wanted to sleep so I asked my s/o "can you help me put her to sleep please" and he says "probably not." I told him I had to sleep early for work and all he said was "what time is it" then went back to sleep. I started crying because I was upset and I'm just tired of dealing with this. we always fight about how we are both supposed to help with our daughter and he always brings up the fact that he works more than me so he doesn't have to help with her as much. It makes me so sad and I just wish he would help me more.. if it's not that excuse, he will always say "I cant put her to sleep because she just wants you." well.. of course she does! because he doesn't help or play with her as often or put her to sleep all the time like I do. we always argue about this and I just wish there was something for me to say in order for it to click in his brain. and then he always wants to have sex and it gets me mad because I don't want to because why take part in something that causes reproduction if you aren't going to help me take care of our child? does that even make sense.. ugh idk. I'm just so tired.