Having sex for the first time..?

Question

I felt like I was so ready to do it, me and my boyfriend

get closer each and everyday, and all I can think of is how nice it must be to lose your virginity to the right person, but I've seen comments on here about bad experiences due to heavy bleeding or being in pain, or how much it hurts when the hymen breaks... The thought of it scares me! 😂 Could anyone fill me in on more details about this??
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It's a pleasurable experience but don't stress about your hymen breaking. In fact, it could've already happened! Like me, it broke before i first had sex. I knew this because after multiple times having sex, nothing never hurt and there was no bleeding. If it does end up breaking once you have had sex, think of it as a period. Don't stress about it :) and you will still have a great time! Have fun and be safe!

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Honestly relax and communicate. Go slow make sure you use lube and foreplay for 15-20 min before. If you are turned on enough it won't be bad. If it starts to hurt just try to relax, tell him to stop and try and foreplay more or wait and then try again.

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All those things you listed does not happen to everyone, I did not experience any pain when I lost my virginity. It depends on the person I guess, if you haven't already, masturbation is a way to get rid of those parts of the virginity taking. Lol.

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Different people experience differently. Some endure pain, and others don't. As for me I experienced a lot of pain. But my boyfriend was extremely kind and gentle. He wanted me to be 100% ready. You can't be 80% ready. Be 100%, use a lot of lub and relax, I know it's hard to relax with all that pain! Hahah trust me it does hurt but like I said other people experience differently. So use a lot of lub! But most importantly be 100% ready!

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Thankyou for all the reassuring comments! It's good to know how others react to having sex the first time☺️

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