PMS, PMDD or something else?

Ever since I was younger, (I’m 23) I’ve noticed about a week or two before I start my period, I get very angry and I lash out. I become super sensitive and think something’s wrong in my relationship. Once I get my period it goes away. I tried birth control but it makes it worse. I don’t know what to do. It feels like every little thing pisses me off. I don’t know how my man handles it so well but I’m sick of being like that towards him when he isn’t doing anything wrong. I do have a history of mental health (anxiety and depression) but this is so different. Only when my periods due it goes from like 0-100. Any advice? I need to find a new gyno too since mine didn’t work out. It’s been a while. Thanks ladies.