Babysitter

My boyfriend and I stay together , going on 3 years . Him and I had a fight so he went to stay with his grandma. We have a 3 year old daughter together and I work 3rd shift at Walmart. So , for the last two nights I’ve been dropping my daughter off with him over there while I work .. then I have her during the day. So , I texted him earlier and informed him I would bring her to him tonight also . He says his grandmother said that all I see him is , is a babysitter and that my daughter can stay home or he would have to come to my house and watch her . Correct me if I’m wrong but I coulda sworn that a man watching his child while the other parent work is the right thing to do !! 🤔