So I’ve been seeing this guy for close to two months now. I really like him. The last time we saw each other, Monday, we actually admitted that we feel romantically about each other but don’t want to ruin what we have by initiating a relationship. He also stated he wasn’t sure about monogamy which kinda turned me off. I feel like we’ve spent a lot of time together, shared intimate things.. and though I wouldn’t want to be in a traditional relationship, I would like to exclusively see each other.

In addition to that, the last few times we’ve had sex, I’ve found myself being like.. meh. He eats 😻 pretty good, but his package isn’t as big as I’m used to. He also doesn’t last that long. To top it all off, he only likes missionary. Sometimes I can sneak in doggy if we have sex over his bathroom counter, but y’all... he won’t even let me put my legs on his shoulders😕😕 he claims it’s because he wants to be closer to me when we’re having sex but... I’m dyin’ here!!!

If we were more committed, I could see myself dealing with the meh sex. But since we aren’t and I’m not sure if he would be open to being monogamous anytime soon.. I’m questioning if I should move on. What would you do?

Update: We have left the non committal one minute man in the rear view🖤