So I posted asking for advice a few days ago. Thank you all for sharing. Now I need to rant.

I just spent almost a month planning and packing for myself and our 4 mo old to go on vacation. We’re taking a 2 week long vacation that is a lengthy drive from home. I also made arrangements for the dog and prepaid the dog sitter. My SO came home from work at lunch to (????). I wanted to get the car packed mod afternoon but he had to go to the store still. I just put our LO down for bed and go check on the car progress. He says he just put a load of laundry in so he can finish packing. Are you freaking kidding me. It’s 8 pm here btw and our plan is to leave in the night when she wakes to feed so I’m going to bed and he can just figure it out.