So I’m 6 weeks 2 days pregnant and been placed on bed rest by my doctor because I had som spotting/bleeding and my partner was supposed to take care of me but he had a friends bux party that was tonight I begged him to stay and help me but he left anyway. And palmed me off to my mother and sister in law. Now I was pissed off like extremely pissed off that he had done this and throughout the night he has ignored me and lied to me. I said no strippers at all if they are involved we are done like on the spot done don’t care. And guess what he when to the strippers and out clubbing. He’s ignored every text and call and yes I called over 30 times in a row but he said call me if you need me and we’ll before I found out about the strippers I was calling due to cramping but he didn’t care because he never answered nor will he answer me. When I found out about the strippers I went on our bank account to pay a bill I had and there it was $150 entertainment and the only entertainment in my town is the strippers. And I’m honestly just done this sort of she shouldn’t have happened I begged for him to stay home and mind you he left at 7:30 in the morning for a bux party like come on. Anyway I’m laying here at 3am the next day still can’t get a hold of him and honestly stressed out I’ve beehged multiple times for him to come home and he says no I’m to drunk and I said sober up and come get me (from my sister in laws house) at 8pm and he ignores me every time I said something like that.

What’s my problem with strippers you might ask well it’s not the people that get me mad it’s the fact that he would rather watch other women naked then even look at me anymore and it’s been this way for a long time and he literally only has sex with me when he’s desperate so yeah I don’t like the idea of strippers and to me him going to the strippers is cheating because if he wants to look at someone it should be me right.

Edit: I should probably mention he’s done this sort of thing before (except the strippers thing this was the first time but I’ve been very vocal about it from the start)when we first got together but stopped for 2 almost 3 years. And I will admit I’m not a very nice person when things like this happen I literally turn crazy and say a bunch of mean things and call him a bunch of names which I still agree he is every single bad name I’ve called him I will never take them back or the stuff I say when I’m angry. Because when I say something I mean it and I literally think about before I send it or say it and still agree with it.

Oh and my doctor only put me on bed rest for 3 days and then take it easy and don’t over do it until my first trimester is up then after that I should be fine to exercise and all that but honestly I don’t exercise I have a toddler that’s enough exercise for me😂

Ok this is like way off topic but his friends think I’m a mental case and I’m crazy. Also I know this part was really wrong but like I should be honest but when he was ignoring me/me telling him to sober up I messaged the guy who’s bux party it was and told him these exact words tell him to get his f**ken ass home now and the called him 1-2 times when my partner was ignoring me be I had threatened to and at that point I was so over it.

Edit#2 When he comes to get me from my sister in laws I told him to be here at 8 sharp (currently 4:36 in Australia) then we are going to our house he’s packing his stuff and going somewhere else and not allowed to see me or our 1 year old for awhile until he actually shows me that he cares about us. If he really want to get back together he has a lot of changing to do. If he doesn’t change I guess we will have to work out custody. I do want my kids to grow up with a dad but not a person that treats me like I’m nothing