🚨TERRIFYING UPDATE AT BOTTOM🚨

~Original Post~

Yesterday morning my Mom calls me with some life changing information. She told me that she was contacted by a guy she used to date in the past and he asked about the child they “would have had”

Apparently my mother was dating two separate men when I was conceived and that my Dad is possibly not my biological father!

She begged me to forgive her and was super apologetic. I told her I forgive her and I love her and I’m not here to judge her and thanked her for telling me the truth. I asked her why she never told me this and how did she “decide” that my dad was indeed the one who got her pregnant.

Her reasoning was she knew my Dad longer than the other guy and she wanted in her heart for my Dad to be the father. She lied to the other guy back in the day and told him that she was going to terminate the pregnancy!

She told me how now she’s unsure which one is my biological dad. Here’s where the story get wild. When I was 9 I remember meeting a man in the grocery store with my mom and I remember feeling a strong bond to this man. I can’t explain it but I just knew he was my dad. I asked my mom about him for so long after but she always told me that no he wasn’t my dad. But I just knew deep down in my heart he was.

My Dad has only come around for holidays and birthdays but aside from that he wasn’t very active in my life. He never really tried to bond with me. When I would ask my mom why we didn’t look alike she said because I look identical to her sister (my Aunt Sarah)

Fast forward to Yesterday

My mom is telling me all this and asks if I remembered the man from the grocery store when I was 9! I was shook when she told me he could possibly be my father! She sent me his number and Without hesitation I called him! We spoke for almost an hour and omg my heart lit up like the 4th of July!

He was so warm and welcoming and felt robbed that he never knew I existed. He was heartbroken my mom lied and cried about it. He’s so much like me! We have the same laugh! His twin sister and I look sooo much like! I never knew where I got my nose from and I can see in pictures she has the exact same nose as me and we have the same smile! And I always wondered who smile my daughter had because it’s not mine or her dads, but guess what? My potential father and my daughter have the same smile, chin, and cheeks!! I couldn’t believe it!

So as we are sharing pictures more information comes up. Apparently my mom lied about having a child when they met. I have an older sister and she never disclosed that. So when we were sharing pictures I sent one of my sister and get this ...My freaking sister and his wife used to work together for 6 years about 10years ago!! How wild!!

So I’m talking to my mom after all this and I told her to give me space to process it all. I sent a picture I made over to her of my potential father twin sister and me when I was a baby. I told her not to share this as I wanted to if the DNA came back a match. She completely disregarded what I said and has continuously crossed boundaries in this whole situation. She’s putting words in my mouth when speaking to him and she’s not allowing the two of us space to process it all.

I’m aggravated with her but as of right now I can’t help but feel nervous and excited because this is the man I met when I was 9 and never forgot about because of how I felt around him, and now this same man could potentially be my actual dad 😭😭😭 I can’t help but to be filled with optimism and hope. I hope this man is my true dad and guess what?

He’s open to doing the test! I’m buying the test today (because my mom won’t fork over the funds 🙄) and we should know in about a week or so if he’s indeed my Dad ♥️♥️♥️♥️ all my fingers and toes are crossed please pray for me y’all 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

This nose is not like anyone else in my family and I’m wondering if I got it from their genes (his twin sister)

~1st Update~

I just ordered the test kit and it’s arriving tomorrow morning! I received a discount after sharing my story with the facility and they are excited to be apart of our story and are hoping the tests a match. We should have results in a weeks time

~ 2nd UPDATE~

So I have some not so great news! The guy that collected money from me for the DNA testing is a SCAMMER! He stole my money from me and never sent the testing kit out!! After paying him I emailed him, called him several times and texted him. His company office number is no longer in service and his work phone goes straight to voicemail but the mailbox is full so I’m unable to leave a message! I had to call PayPal to request my money back. I’m so heartbroken this guy was playing on my heartstrings and saw me as a person to rip off! He seemed so genuine and he claimed to be a social worker, but after lots of research I discovered this was a lie! I was able to verify via the lab he claimed to use for his testing and they flat out said this guy was NOT listed as one of their affiliates!! I called my potential father in emotional distress because I can’t believe all this! He told me “Baby, don’t you worry. I’m going to fix this for us. Nothing is going to stop me from getting us to do this test!” I wish I had better news to share but soon enough I will know the answers.

I want to personally thank you all for being on this journey with me and providing so much support and sharing your similar amazing stories. You all have been my ROCK through this! I promise I will try my hardest to have a definitive answer by next week. I thank you all again with my whole heart ❤️

~3rd update~

☀️Good Morning ladies! I’m walking in to the clinic today at 1:15pm to take the test in person! We both will know the final answer in 3-5 business days!! My stomach is in knots and my heart is racing! If he is indeed my Dad then I’m going to have some deep emotions I work through with my Mom, and if he’s not I still will have a lot of heavy emotions to work through with her because as of right now I feel myself getting deeply bothered by what she’s done. But I will cross that bridge when we get there, for now I’m sooooo freaking nervous for this! Thank you all so much for being invested in this whole ordeal! I feel like we all family now and we’re going to find the truth out together! 🤞🏽🙏🏽♥️

~4th terrifying update~

I am going to remove the pictures of my potential father and also the message with the scammer! On Friday my potential father home was targeted and high caliber weapons were used by a perpetrator on his home. I thank God him or his family weren’t harmed but I’m left with a very uneasy feeling. I just want to be sure that I’m not doing anything on social media that could be dangerous to myself or others (not that this is the case, but I want to take caution in case) My heart broke when he shared this news. He lives in a gated suburban community so this is something that’s no at all common. He’s a loving kind person with no enemies so the police are saying it was a case of the wrong house. However my soul is stunned and I want to protect his privacy and mine. Maybe I’m being overly cautious but I just want everyone to be safe and harm free. For now there isn’t an update with the testing but the results should be in by this Friday 8/9.