Am i over reacting? Advice needed

I went to my boyfriends house yesterday and we got in an argument. I ask him what was it about and he didn't tell me for the longest time. Sometimes i feel lile he doesn't love me or pay enough attention to me so i brought it up... He tells me that its not true and im overreacting. He barely text me and he doesn't call me unless i call him but most of the time he doesn't answer. Proceeded to ask him questions like, is he happy with me? Does he want to be with me? Is he miserable being with me? And so on. He procrastinates to answer and about an hour goes by he finally answer that yes he is miserable. Why i ask him why he take a long time to answer again. When he finally answers my question he says " promise no to get mad" so i promise then he tells me. He has feelings for his ex. After that i cried off and on. I continued to cry today. Should i be worried anout anything? We were together for 18 months then broke up for 6 months and We been back together for 4 months

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Ca

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I would leave ... he may love you but any feelings for another women is still feelings and he can act upon this feelings at any moment... you need someone who is 💯 to you not 50/50 or less ... trust me it will hurt now but may hurt even more if it happens with more time put in ... I always like getting point of views from there side how they would act or feel if you had feelings for another man and you just weren’t 💯 In the relationship more then likely he will give you your next step in his remark ... it’s so much easier then being confused on stay or go

Ch

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Honey if he’s in love with his ex let him go ur not on his mind she is and you deserve better if you don’t leave him now I’m sure he will resort to cheating on you go find you a man that’s all about you and wants to be with you go find someone that makes you happy

Sa

Samantha • Jul 21, 2019
Thats that thing he said that he loved me over and over again and he chose me over her because he wanted to me there for our baby. I told him " if you loved me then you still wouldn't have feelings for her.

Ja

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I know this is hard love but you’ll be alright. He doesn’t deserve you and you deserve someone to treat you right and you’ll find them. This dumb boy is merely a stepping stone. Don’t let him play you with the I chose you over her crap it shouldn’t be a choice you should be the only one. I’m so sorry you’re going through this but you deserve better and you’ll find it. Clearly he needs to figure himself out and you shouldn’t allow yourself to get hurt in the process. You’ve got this girly. You deserve so much better.

Sa

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Gross. I wouldn't play second fiddle to anyone.
Gross. I wouldn't play second fiddle to anyone.