So I'm 9 weeks pregnant and my mother thinks it's stupid that I wait until the 12 weeks to tell people I'm pregnant. I only do that because I have friends who have said they were pregnant and then have a miscarriage. I waited until 12 weeks with my first child and I'm waiting with this one also. My mom cant wait to tell anyone.

Also she wont come down to spend time with her living grandson (my son) but she says let her know when I have a sonogram and she'll be there to see it. Is it wrong that I'm telling her about my appointments after they happen? Her excuse is she doesn't have the gas money. So she can come see my son and spend time with him for a couple hours, but she can spend the gas money to come to a sonogram?

She's so frustrating. She tries to be so controlling and she tries to kick my husband out of everything. I had to have a c-section last time and if she had her way she would have kicked my husband out of the OR :/