Has anyone ever done this before? I have been on and off with this guy for two years. We decided, so we don’t jump into something that ends quickly, that we talk, be committed, and make a promise we will not sext or have sex with anyone else. I’m okay with this I guess. The problem is I’m in love with him. He’s said he has feelings for me. I want to date him. He’s waiting for something. What should I do? Is this normal? Given our history I find it normal because we have been on and off and we want to make sure we commit to each other for a long period of time.

But... I want him now. I don’t know why I need the label but I do. I guess I’m afraid of loosing him.