AM I WRONG? Ignoring husband for almost 7 days

So my husband is in military training for 3 months . It’s going on 7 weeks since I have seen him. Before he left he stressed about me visiting him. I told him I don’t want to go down there and I want him to focus. But since

He wanted me to visit, We got my spousal military card and starting talking about me Visiting him. I told him that I don’t want to drive so I would fly. So he got there any was telling me how busy he is but tells me he is free

On weekends. So initially my mom and I were going to drive down during the week but he told me that he wouldn’t have that much time for me so for me to come on a weekend. I say okay cool, I will drive on a weekend. I tell him my days off for July in June first he is cool with it and then changes his mind saying that he will be busy those days. So another time I try to take off I’m not able to get my days off, so that too stresses me off. So I told

Him that I’m off August 2,3,4 and to let me know if I should come or else I’m picking up extra shifts (to stay busy) . He tells me he is super busy with training and has become their social media guy so he posts pictures and videos what they are up to and he says he does all the editing and stuff on weekends and to just work. So I picked up an extra shift at my second job for the 3rd of August. So he called me like 2 weeks ago telling me that I can come those days in August . First I’m like yo wtf make

Up your mind but I figured it was out of his control and things are always changing with schedules. So i finally

Got someone to cover my shift then I took another day off so I have 4 days off for my visit.

So last week I was excited about visiting him and stuff and he says that they have a field trip that first weekend . I said omg u keep giving me the run around, should I or should I not come?! He says i can come another weekend, I say I can’t cause I don’t have weekends off like that! So we start arguing, he’s saying IM stressing him out about coming while he’s already overwhelmed in the first place. I told him how he should’ve told me in the beginning not to come in the beginning and to see him when he returns. Now I just gave up extra money that i use to pay off my debt etc.

So we are literally arguing about seeing each other and

Then he goes off on me then hangs the phone up in my ear.

I became so ANGRY, DEVALUED and HURT. He knows I’m extremely missing him while he’s gone and I hate when he hangs up in my ear. Usually he’ll call back with the same apologies for hanging up and yelling. But I ignored his phone call. Then cried myself to sleep. Then for the last 6 days I haven’t talked to him.

So Saturday I got out of a reallly good yoga class and I felt so good and I started looking over his Facebook with his fellow military photos and started liking them. Then His statuses from years ago when he wasn’t doing well popped up and it made me realize how much he’s doing well and is ambitious. So I liked the status. To remind him of how far he’s come. Etc. So he called me and i missed his Call. He texts me asking me how I’m not right for trying to bring up his past etc. I told him I was trying to show how far he’s came. He called me all types of

Liars etc. so I went back to ignoring him. This was Saturday and it’s now Monday morning. Every time

I look at his texts I get angry again & refuse to talk to him