Update: getting my IUD out today!

Quick backstory. My fiance and I have twin boys, they'll be 2 in November. They were born prematurely, 32w5d. My body just gave out and I had preeclampsia. Pregnancy was awful all around, and the birth was terrifying going in that early. They were in the nicu for 22 days. They're thriving now and are the sweetest boys ever.

I just really want to try for a girl. Don't get me wrong I know its a 50/50 chance and since I had twins naturally before i have a 1 in 12 chance of having twins again. I would love a girl but wont be disappointed if its another boy......or 2 lol! Past couple months I've brought up me maybe wanting another to family and friends; All I've heard was "the twins are enough, that I dont need anymore" or if they didnt say that, then their face said it all. Its very discouraging. I have a date set to have my IUD removed on Sept 3rd. My fiance is nothing but reassuring. I just cant shake the thought in the back of my mind maybe I should listen to everyone and not get pregnant again. Any and all advice is appriciated.