Did you ever... ?

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Did you ever think of what could be your life if you weren't married? Have you ever experienced need to got some flirt with other men while being happy in our current relations? I don't know what to do but after being in relations for seven years I want now the attention of other guy, but def don't want to ruin my current relations! I love my husband!
The please be kind and advice me something? Is this way too wrong to have some internet flirt?

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If a lightbulb goes out in the house, it's much easier to replace a lightbulb than it is to buy a whole new house. Just saying! Good luck 😃

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The grass might look greener but often isn't...just think how you would feel if your hubby said these things...

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It is VERY fun to play around with what ifs, and the maybes. I play along with my girl friends if I comes up, but I always have a sobering reminder gnawing at the back of my mind.

(Not to be a party pooper, but this is my anecdote for when the "what if" game comes up)

If I hadn't met and agreed to go out with my then boyfriend now husband I would most certainly be dead. He doesn't like it when I say that, or take credit for it, but he really did save me.

I had wanted to kill myself to make my mother feel better. I was constantly told that I was fat, disgusting, stupid, and that by running a prostitution ring that I was ruining my family's life. When in reality I was binge eating, but even at my thinnest, I was still fat. I got mostly A's and the occasional B. I had never even kissed a boy until I was 16. I had decided since so much vitriol was hurled my way that it was true. And being dead would mean that they would finally be rid of their mistake baby and be able to enjoy the baby they wanted. I was born 4 years into their marriage, I wasn't planned or wanted.

My now husband had sent me an email asking me out, and that evening my ritual of writing a pros and cons list of why I should die was outweighed by 1 point. My first boyfriend was not the nicest and was not a fun experience so I decided I should at least die knowing I'd had a decent kiss.
 
7 years later, I'm back to my effervescent high energy self, I still revert back to the dark periods with exposure to my mother. But my husband is why I'm here.
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