Can I just say, the time when you would have been announcing your pregnancy.....and other pregnant friends (or in my case THREE FREAKING COUSINS) announce theirs is the 👏 hardest 👏 time👏. At least for me. To find out you would have been pregnant together and your kids would be close in age...To be left out of the “club” that was supposed to be your club! The guilt of feeling jealous. A sucker punch to the gut when I was starting to heal. THE WORST!

Onwards and upwards my friends.