Overstepping

Does anyone else's mom over step them and tell them that they don't do things right with there kids. For example" since the baby was born the 4 yr. Old doesnt get enough attention from you so I have to love on her." When really she didnt get dessert because she refused to eat anything for dinner and threw a fit in the floor. Or "you just let that baby scream" when I was rocking, Feeding, whatever I could to calm her, she was just fighting sleep. We are stuck living with my parents until our house is ready to move in, and I feel attacked. Anyone else?