Nervous to try again soon

Jess • 👨‍👩‍👧27 years old. Wife. Momma. Girl #2 due Nov '23🤰 👼🏼 2/28/19 ♥️ 3/28/20 👼🏼

Just giving a general concern I have here.

My husband and I were very blessed in that the first full month of us TTC we became pregnant. All of the women in my family have a history of getting pregnant within the first month or two of trying. Because I had a molar pregnancy, the doctor won’t clear to get pregnant again til mid October (6 months after my D&C). This allows them to make sure I won’t get choriocarcinoma. Anyways, I have this fear that when we do start trying again it won’t come as easily. I’m worried it’ll take 6 months, a year, or longer. I never EVER pictured myself having a miscarriage (no history in my family) so I’m afraid I’ll be the odd-man-out again, so to speak, by not getting pregnant right away.

I feel bad saying all of this because I know there are couples out there who try for years and then have a miscarriage whenever they do finally end up pregnant. I truly admire the strength of those people and do not envy them at all. This is just my own petty little thoughts.