🚫🚫🚫CHILDREN🚫🚫🚫

Update:

IM JUST VENTING, why do some of y’all take it up the ass? I always tell them to stop pressuring us. Obviously it gets frustrating DUH, and just because I’m explaining how their house holds are doesn’t not mean I talk bad about them 😂. Some of y’all act like if you don’t vent and take EVERYTHING you’re feeling out.

Posting this as anonymous just in case LOL.

Okay girls/guys... my husband has 4 sisters, they all have kids and bad marriages.

(FAKE NAMES)

Nicole has 3 kids, she’s independent and a BOSS B, I love her to death. She’s the best role model.

Allison has 2 kids, has 2 baby daddy’s, depends on CHILD SUPPORT and complains about having to work. She’s manipulative, demanding, short temper, and mean. Her kids FEAR HER.

Kate has 3 kids, one of them is a revenge baby. Her husband cheated on her, then she cheated back at him. And then they got back together but he was just playing Kate and got her pregnant cause she cheated on him in the past.

Kate is manipulative, demanding, mean, rude, impatient, crazy, she does things that will benefit her. Her first child is just like her, and the other 2 are sweethearts and terrified of their mother.

Gabby is has 4 kids. Her and her husband are cheating back and fourth. Leaving their kids anywhere with anyone just to club and cheat on each other. They’re always wasted and surprising really successful (financially) which is sad. They have a BEAUTIFUL home on the outside and it’s all wrecked on the inside. Their kids are needy and clingy since their parents are never there for them.

(Their kids are my world)

My husband and i have NO kids whatsoever. We’ve been married for almost 5 years, his sisters are always pressuring us into having kids. When in reality my husband and I don’t want children at the moment. I always tell his sisters

“we have some marriage problems that we would like to solve before we have children” and then Kate says

“hAvInG a ChIlD sAvEd My MaRRiaGe”

righhhhht KATE, RIGHHHHT

And then last time I said “I would rather us not have kids yet. BECAUSE just Incase our marriage doesn’t work.. I wouldn’t want Jack (my hubby) to be miserable, I wouldn’t want my child to be miserable and I don’t want to be miserable...”

**And by this ⬆️ i don’t mean everyone is miserable after a divorce, I just don’t want to be in that situation. PERIOD. Don’t get offended girls/guys.

And from then on they all hate me except Nicole

NOT EVERYONE WANTS CHILDREN. PERIOD!!!!!!!

PS. This is NOT to offend anybody who grew up in a broken home like I did, it’s not meant to offend anybody who receives child support, it’s not meant to offend ANYBODY. (Before some of y’all jump the gun)

Its just frustrating to be pressured into something almost daily.