I know everyone disciplines differently, but how is raising your voice to a child and correcting them wrong? My boyfriend snapped at my son because after he came back from his fathers he kept telling me no that he didn’t have to listen and then called me a bitch. Mind you my son is 4. My boyfriend apologized cause lately things have been rough with everything going on but he was being cute in text and shared them on a different group cause I was happy about it and now I’m being told I should worry about my boyfriend around my kids. And how no one should snap on a child etc. but when I explained oh snapping just meant raising our voices more than usual because disciplining the boys had been harder since they started going to their dads on the weekends. But no one hits my kids. We raise our voice, put them in the corner or take things away. That to us is snapping on them lol. I’m just curious to how others feel about this.

These are the texts I posted so people can understand the context. I have two boys 4&3 from my previous marriage. I have been with my boyfriend since November. He’s been in my boys life since January. I was separated from my ex for over a year and in the process of a divorce. I am also 20 weeks pregnant. So things have been crazy; as well as I live with my mom since leaving my ex and am looking for a place with my boyfriend. Which was where a lot of these texts were coming from on being stressed out and what not.