Take her ? Or leave her?

Vanessa • 21. 1 baby, due with #2 02/07/20. Married

Hi everyone, so this weekend we’re going to Pismo (Oceano Dunes) for my husbands cousins birthday party. We’ll be camping out on the beach for one night only.

He wants to take our 6 month old so so bad. But I don’t want to. My mom offered to watch her over the weekend, which is fine, I trust her.

But the reasons I don’t want to take her are

•if you’ve ever been to Pismo/Oceano dunes YOU KNOW it freezes at night. I don’t want her getting chilled and sick.

•there will be like 30 people going and they’re all going to be drinking.

•since I’m pregnant I’ll most likely be the drunk sitter.

AND last but not least. She’s going through her 6 month sleep regression AND teething. So the nights have been miserable lately. & I just don’t want her crying and crying with campsites full of people around to hear it, I’ll just feel bad.

But he won’t shut up about bringing her ☹️ and it’s just starting to make me feel bad.

Any suggestions?