Okay so me && my boyfriend ( bestfriends for 6 yrs ) or finally dating && our sex is bomb asf already but I want to spice it up && do BDSM but my baby isn’t into it he doesn’t like the thought of hurting me or feeling like he’s taking advantage ... but sometimes I just want him to slap an ass cheek pull a little hair ... choke me a little ... call me his personal slut ... something ... today out off every time we had sex that he has came on my chest ... * involuntary I might add ** && when he seen it he got pretty mad ... 🙄🙄 wtf is up ??