Hello ladies 👋

I need some advice, my SO and I started having UNPROTECTED sex started July 12th (TTC) the thing is I haven’t had a period since May of last year I gave birth in February but no longer have the baby 😕 my question is: TTW how long should I wait to test? I’m not sure since I don’t have a period to go by... 😩 when should I take a test we stopped trying since it’s so up in the air not having a period to go by HELP 😐 I am so lost confused not to mention frustrated since I have nothing to go by not even OPK testing since I haven’t gotten one positive in weeks 😫 this is absolutely driving me crazy I just really want to know if I can have a chance to be pregnant or if not I want to know too just so I can end the heartache if that makes any sense & I just want to take my mind off it

Any advice is definitely needed thank you in advance 🙍‍♀️