Hi,

This girl and I met on Bumble a couple of months ago and hit it off so well- we clearly really liked each other, were very very attracted to each other- texting heaps and stuff.

Then as time went on, she sometimes went MIA and I confronted her as to why and she said mental health reasons basically. I was like ‘cool, I totally understand, please take care of yourself and talk to me when you feel like it’.

So from then on it’s sort of sometimes every couple of days we talk: sometimes is awkwardly casual and she replies really bluntly, sometimes she is super horny, sometimes she friendzones me- but she always initiates the chat. I don’t understand if she likes me or not. I’m starting to assume she doesn’t want to date me, but still contacts me. Why not let me move on? I still really like her but...

If she doesn’t want to date me anymore why does she keep messaging me? There was a guy in her insta story and she was all glammed up and I was so heartbroken (we are both bi) but at then a few days later she messaged me? She doesn’t seem like an asshole that dates a person and messages other people.. I think

I really like her but don’t want to act crazy or come off as a psycho or clingy and just tell her I like her so much and she’s kind of torturing me by being indirect. We’ve been talking for ages but haven’t even met in person because I don’t want to ask her and chase her away.

Sometimes she says I’m too good for her, but I just want to date someone I finally like (rare). But she hurts me like all the time.

What should I do?