10 years under my belt with this woman and I still let her get to me. Every single time. I’m just angry at myself at this point that I let another human being get me so angry. But I find myself replaying the things she says to me, the innocent but derogatory statements clearly making me look like a bad/irresponsible mom and person. I’m convinced she has some sort of fucking mental disease bec no one in their right minds would say the shit she says but yet I’m the one looking badshit crazy at the end bec my emotions get the best of me. And yet she just stands there with a smile in her eyes, a look of silent victory. I can’t. How do you guys deal with your overbearing mother in laws?? I try thinking of good comebacks but she’s quick as lightening and gets back at me faster than I can say my own name. She’s seriously like a bully, but in a nice non physical way if that makes sense? Help?!! Desperate mama here 😭😭😭