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Okay first of all... everyone goes through this experience when their first real love/relationship inevitably ends (they always end), you think your world + life will never be good and happy ever again, but this is not true, the best is literally yet to come... I promise!! your first love is one of the the biggest experiences of your life... you will be taken to all sorts of unfamiliar and unknown places (mentally + emotionally), don’t worry... tomorrow will come, and your first love won’t be there for you, and that’s okay, I promise you true love (real love) will never ever leave you when you need them most of all, no... real love will be there, by your side, supportive, kind, and loving. I think your lesson here is to learn that your worst fears (losing our loved one) can actually happen, and does really happen to 1000’s of people each and everyday... for a multitude of reasons. In your case to suddenly be ghosted, out of the blue, unexpectedly is particularly cruel, mean and extremely reckless!! And it is literally unforgivable, loved ones don’t treat their loved ones this way, this is not love. I suggest starting a new hobby, socialising with friends a little more... or maybe casual dating. Good luck
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When does the pain stop? Her and I have been broken up for 8 months and I still miss her she was my first love, the first person I brought home to my parents on a actual serious note, I wanted to marry her, she was my life, my bestfriend and I still love her more than life, I guess it's gotten alittle easier but like she was so many first and I fear I lost my chance at love forever like she was the one and I'll never find another person, put relationship was huge we were together pretty much everyday we battled so much as a couple she was my first love y'all and I miss her and I hate living life without her, I'm going through alot and shes the ONLY person who would understand and the only person I wanna talk to about it, nobody can be her and I dont think anyone will be as good to me as she was and nobody is gonna love me like she did, we were BEST friends even after the breakup but about three months ago she just up and quit talking to me and never said a word about it, she left when I needed her the most I had hit rock bottom emotionally and I needed my bestfriend and she was not there, I just need her back but I dont wanma freak her out or piss her off by reaching out i secretly hope she reaches out to me but I won't hold my breath, please tell me it gets better and I'll meet the " true" love of my life and it'll all be okay I cant live if I lost the one true love of my life
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Darling it does get better, I’ve been there, just think about this: if she could leave you when you were at that low point, drop you just like that without a second thought, as if you never existed, was she really worth keeping around? Maybe it was never meant to be, she’d show her true colors eventually. It hurts like hell rn but I promise you, finding love again after going through all this pain is one of the best feelings ever. Hang in there pal, there’s still plenty of less bitchy fish in the sea :D
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