About a year ago, I was raped by my fiance. I feel so stupid because I completely blocked it out all this time. We're having other issues now and the night he took advantage of me while I was passed out and recorded it, has suddenly came flooding back to me mixed in with our other issues. I was so weak back then so I didn't stand up for myself or understand that it was rape even though it was someone I love.

I have tried to talk to him about it but he is blowing it off since it was so long ago. I dont know what to do. We have a 5 month old daughter together and I would be devastated if someone did that to her, especially someone who is supposed to protect her.

Has too much time gone by for me to be upset?