Getting over it?

Question

I recently broke up with a man I have been with for three years for a number of things. I know 100% that we should not be together. Yet, that is exactly what I want. Is to be with him. I miss him so much and I love him just as much.

My question to you all is what helped you guys get over someone who you broke up with or vice versa?

My problem is he is eager to get back. Now, I want him back as well but I know for sure I will regret it a day after we get back together because he is so disrespectful, mean, rude, and controlling. Domestic violence and domestic battery was prominent throughout the three years and I finally freed myself just to go back?

Please ladies let me know how you overcame the urge to get back with someone you knew you shouldn't be with.

Thank you.

Answer

Don't go back! Give it time and you'll meet someone so special. You just have to have the will power to do so! I was in a bad relationship and He ended up breaking up with me. I don't think I would have ever done it.  It took me a year to move on. Mainly because he wouldn't let me get over him! He didn't want to be with me but didn't want me to be with anybody else. That sort of thing. I finally had enough though after he hurt me real bad again! I told him I didn't want to even get any complements from him. Then I got over him. Thankfully I did because I met my husband a couple of months after that! You will do the same. Hang in there and know you deserve the BEST!

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I finally realized there are people out there that won't treat you terribly. And I made sure once I left, I had zero contact with him for quite awhile, no phone, no stopping by, nothing.

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Avoid him at all costs and find things to do to keep busy. Go out with friends as much as you can. 3 years is a long time so of course this is tough and you are going to need a lot of time to get over him. Stay as busy as possible and focus on dojng things that are for and about you only. I've been there..its tough..but you can get through this I promise!

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Give it time. Ofcourse your going to be emotional over a relationship you only just left. It takes time to see how your life will be different for the better. Guve yourself ATLEAST 4 OR MORE  months away from your ex and go no contact. It's hard but it will get easier every day. Unfortunately there is no simple trick to make your feelings go away. It takes time.

Getting over it?

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