Do you think Men should be allowed off work for appointments?

My husbands boss is being a real douche about him taking off to go to any baby appointments. And I don’t expect him to go to everyone of them. But ultrasounds especially, I feel like he needs to go and so does he. His boss is a real AssHole. It makes me so sad that I don’t get experience these things with my husband 😭. He’s obviously really upset too, but we can’t really risk him losing his job with a baby on the way. I’m just so mad/sad/annoyed so many emotions 😡