I mean my blood is BOILING with this whole situation

Okay sorry for the long post in advance but I’m just trying to figure out if I’m crazy or not

A little back story , my fiancé came to Toledo to visit his mom. While he was there he met me which caused him to stay there. We got together and for 4 years he tried getting me to move with him down to South Carolina were he is from. For a long time I just couldn’t, well after 4 years and 2 kids later I finally decided to step out my comfort zone, live a little and moved down here with him. When we first got here I was so home sick I couldn’t believe that I mad this decision and to top it off he was a complete ass to me for the first month or so.

Ok now fast forward to my blood boiling situation.

Ever since we moved down here he comes home from work and literally leave again to go help his aunt. She literally has a new task for him everyday. Sometimes as stupid as will you go with me to go get dog food. At first it didn’t bother me because you know he’s helping family. But then it’s just gotten outta hand! Me and our kids get like no time with him! I argued with him over it so many times and he just doesn’t care. Well last night when she called at 8pm asking for help I got pissed! We start arguing and he storms out the house saying I’m tripping.

Well he comes home and he’s like me and my aunt ( a different aunt) had a long talk.

I’m like okay and?

He goes we talked about how I’m getting fed up with my aunt always having me do stuff and I don’t get to spend time with my kids and she agreed well she’s the one who brought it up and I told her I’m just tired of it

I’m like hold the fuck up ! You just yelled at me for having a problem with it but now you are fed up? He’s like yea I’m sorry I shouldn’t have tookin it out on you I’m tired of it to so I took it out on you. I’m just like okay what ever moving on.

Well today he calls me otw home for work and ask if the kids were up from there nap because he needed to come grab his dolly and go help his cousin move a freezer. So he goes and does that but he’s gone for 2 hrs so I ask him when he’ll be home and when he got home he told me he had a talk with his aunt ( the one he does everything for) because she was there. He told her that he can’t keep doing this he needs to spend time with his kids because it’s getting so bad when he calls our son screams for him and ask me for the rest of the day when dad will be home. She said she gets it and she’ll back off a little . So I’m like ok good I’m proud of you hopefully things will be better now

Guess what guys? 10 min or so after him being home guess who calls him?

If you guess his aunt your one smart cookie!

She calls him asking him questions about what kind of pipes she needs to redo her pipes in the house and when can he come put trim up in her house because he just got done replacing the drywall and he’s just answering her questions like they never had that conversation so I’m literally sitting there staring at him with this blank ass look while he’s otp with her and he’s like what?

And in my head I’m lighting his ass up like I got words for you but I couldn’t get them out I was just tired of the same argument, I was dumb founded really just speechless so I’m just like nothing and shack my head.

Then he had the nerve to ask me do you wanna go with me sometime this week and help me put up this trim

Awww that’s cute NOT! after that I just let the Conversation go and as of right now I’m not gonna bitch about it no more ima just ride it out and see what happens but am I wrong for being mad am I crazy? Ok she’s family and all but at this point it’s getting out of hand like what did you do with out him ? And she don’t give him a penny js and Ik it’s not about money either but he’s literally re dry walled your house I feel as if you could have offered him something?