My partner

Jodie

I'm so confused because when I go solo on myself it takes me all of 30 seconds to finish... when my partner does it, it takes him forever and sometimes I dont finish. I don't know why. It's not him because hes great but I think I get a little nervous (even though I've been with him 3 years) and I think I concentrate too much on trying to show him that it feels nice rather than just relaxing 🙄