Looking for guidance 😭

So I have irregular periods (28-35 days). I am currently on day 41 and AF has not shown. I am getting negative hpts but am confused as to what is happening. I am TTC but not feeling stressed. I called my

Doc and she wants me to take Provera. She mentioned to abstain from sex while taking it. I feel like this is a step in the wrong direction 😢 should I wait another week and then take the Provera if AF hasn’t shown?

I should mention I’ve had a weird month- mid cycle bleeding, pain in left ovary exactly 1 week ago that latest 24 hours). None of these are normal. This cycle I did not track ovulation so I’m unsure about ovulation date but did have sex every other day.

I’m sorry for this novel 😢 I just need some guidance.