Honeymoon phase over?

Question

Have you ever been in a relationship where you just start to have nothing to talk about? Any ideas on how to get out of this rut?
Quality time isn’t a problem, we cuddle all the time. Sex life isn’t a problem either. We go out and do numerous activities- movies, ice skating, etc. but lately when it comes down to talking, I often feel like there’s nothing to say??

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I think it’s a comfortable phase in a relationship. When you can just BE together and be happy and not have to say anything. My fiancé and I sometimes are talking for hours and sometimes we’re together and not saying anything, just enjoying each other’s company. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that

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It’s ok to not be constantly talking. At the start of our relationship, we talked about ourselves and told stories and asked questions. Five years later, we talk about politics, current events, work, and our son. Or we talk about shows or movies or books as well. But it’s also ok if we don’t talk.

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Try not having sex. Not cuddling. And not talking. Sucks

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I wouldn’t call that a rut necessarily. My husband and I are madly in love yet we don’t have lengthy conversations often. We can sit and say nothing and just enjoy each other’s presence. If you feel like you need to fill the silence talk about what you did that day, what you’re doing tomorrow or talk about plans for the weekend. As your talking about your day to day that should hopefully branch into other areas to talk about

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My husband has always been quiet. He has gotten shit for it his whole life. We talk about a lot, but sometimes there are days where there isn’t much to talk about. Which I’m sure he loves 😅. It’s perfectly normal to not have anything to talk about. Look at it as a good thing!

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I've experienced this as well and it can be quite normal, especially after being together for a while. One thing I can offer as a suggestion is to make sure you both do your own things outside of the couple. It will give you time apart and different experiences to share with each other. Also just taking some time to watch a new video, read an interesting article, find a new song and share it with your partner.. can open up conversation

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There is nothing wrong with not having something to say from time to time but even after 13 years I still learn things about my husband which is nice. Maybe the right questions need to be asked? Idk I mean like I said there is nothing wrong with not always needing to talk as long as it’s not a constant thing in my opinion but what works for one couple doesn’t work for another either

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