Share how you get your big orgasm down below!!!!

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So ive been paying attention to my vagina and got really worried because i thought i could NOT come from my actual vagina.

Like even when i touched myself it was like nothing was happening until i started to rub my clitoris.

Well last year i noticed that (after i got a little high, when smoking weed), i can do it! i lit some candles and got completely relaxed and naked. I got on the floor with my yoga mat, listened to music, and imagined that a guy was holding me really tight and saying “ i love you so much and will never leave you babe”.

I had my dildo going right to a spot in my vagina over and over and it felt amazing!!

I came lol.

It happened again more recently when i was in my apartment. This time i didn’t need a fantasy or weed lol, i just focused on being naked, completely focusing on taking in the dildo, being intimate about the strokes i used in my vagina , and being relaxed.

Lol this time I squirted 😂😭

All that to say I’m learning my body much more at 23. I think i couldn’t come before, because i never had enough privacy or time to myself growing up. My mom or sister were always busting in my room

Even at the start of college, i was never in a long enough relationship to let a guy make me comfortable enough to make me come. I was always worried about stds or getting pregnant 🤷‍♀️

i also have always had roommates right under my fucking nose all the time.

Anyway i finally started to get my own room in apartments and exploring with dildos. Im excited now because im working on a healthy relationship with a guy and i’ll be able to be more sexually and emotionally connected with him to allow him to make me come ;)

Just wanted to share that Its possible to come!! I know that they say a lot of women cant come from their vagina but i believe its possible as long as you make some tweaks and find out whats going on down there;)

Any advice on really good orgasms?