my boyfriend said he doesn’t love me the same way anymore. we are going to talk on the phone tonight (we are long distance, we will be closer in less than a month when we both go back to college where we first met) and we are going to talk about it, but i’m terrified. he’s the first guy i’ve ever loved and even though he doesn’t feel the same way about me, i’m completely in love with him still. I will not beg him to stay, but how can I try to make this work?